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Friday’s Poetic Pause: “Ungrateful”

The annual expressions of gratitude from the U.S.’ Thanksgiving holiday now subsided, I share a poem I wrote yesterday about how hard it is at times to be genuinely grateful.

Over the past year, I have been fortunate enough to live rent-free, staying with friends and family. But that has also meant that I have been someone’s houseguest.

After I wrote this reflection, I wondered: Is there a parallel to be drawn with those at the receiving end of aid?

My first turkey (or was it just a big chicken?) Lilongwe, 2004

 

Ungrateful

To ask, and have to ask.

To be at the mercy of

generosity, or obligation, or excess.

Let us not pretend

it is easy.

To receive with grace – thank and

thank –

and don’t acknowledge

the assault on dignity, on self-respect,

however small or hidden,

as you acknowledge the effort

and time and resources given for you.

You must keep them flowing.

Dependency demands a

constraint to your choices.

Of this, be reminded

with each offered, open palm.

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Have some poems you’ve written or treasured that you’d like to share with fellow aid workers and do-gooders? Please send them my way at email.howmatters@gmail.com!

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2 Comments Add Yours ↓

  1. 1

    Thanks for the provocative poem today! I think part of the power of gratitude is really feeling the thankfulness inside me, not just saying thank you.

  2. 2

    A reader on LinkedIn shared the NYT article, “A Serving of Gratitude May Save the Day.” It starts: “The most psychologically correct holiday of the year is upon us.” A great read.
    http://www.nytimes.com/2011/11/22/science/a-serving-of-gratitude-brings-healthy-dividends.html



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